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A break-up spell is a ritual that should only be used when it is deemed to be the best option for two people or couples who wish to separate.

This type of ritual is extremely dangerous, and you must be fully aware of what you are doing. They are referred to as manipulation rituals because they interfere with the free will of others.

Every rule, however, has an exception. These rituals can be used to remove an unwanted person from your life or to counter someone who has cursed you by bringing the person you love to yourself. It can also be used to get rid of someone who has lived with you and is aware of your flaws and weaknesses.

 

Let's look at how to cast a spell to break up a couple now.

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Black Magic Breakup and Return Spell Casting

The Black Magic Breakup & Return Spell Casting targets a couple and causes them to breakup, and returns your lover back to you (if desired).

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Introduction to Break Up Spells

Engagement and marriage breaks are separation rites (break-up spells) designed to remove two engaged, married, or cohabiting people, or the husband/lover. wife's However, I would like to point out that the only bonds that can be severed are those formed by passion rather than true love.

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Why? Because when two souls are truly connected, when two people are soulmates, it's written in the stars, and the universe will go to great lengths to keep them together forever. So, if you try to separate two soulmates, two people who are meant to be together, your break up spell will most likely fail. If, on the other hand, you know that two people are together but their union is founded on a passion, a purely physical connection, and true love is not present, a breakup spell may be the best option for you.

But, as I see it, there is a lot of confusion about this topic, so I'd like to explain myself better.

We must distinguish between two types of bonds: passionate and sentimental.

“Doesn't this sound like the same thing? Do you understand the distinction?”

No, sometimes there are both, but most of the time only the first. We say that in the beginning, passion arises from the senses, from physical attraction, and is the driving force that brings two people together.

Without it, there can be nothing else, so it is necessary; however, after knowing each other, the couple begins to participate in the life of the other's relationship and thus begins to share the life of each other, and it is at this point that the initially passionate union gives way to the more interior sentimental one until it becomes Love.

People frequently mix them up; the first is sensual, that is, linked to the senses, and it is also very strong; it does not put you to sleep, it takes your breath away, and it causes your heart to beat wildly.

All physiological symptoms of the process emerge primarily in the first few days and can last for several years – usually 3 to 5 years.

In fact, based on my experience, the most significant part of cohabitation is interrupted over a period of 3 to 6 years at most, and as proof, you've probably all heard someone say: you know dear / or I love you so much, but I don't love you as much as I once did.

The second is sentimental, linked to feelings, and by feelings, I don't mean the emotions that the two experience when they are together, but rather the Love that comes from the soul. This creates a type of love that can withstand storms, challenges, and difficult times, and it only grows stronger and deeper as time passes.

 

How can you tell if you're bound by lust or true love?

The first is of instinctual and material bodily origin and is part of the body's instincts that are influenced and governed by the stars.

The second is linked to the soul and is of Divine nature, not subject to bodily influence and even less to the stars, so no one can separate what God who is linked to the Soul has united, but be assured that one of these unions exists on 200.

There is a simple test: if your partner suffers when he or she is ill, and you feel like crying, then it is Love.

How to Prepare a Casting place for Powerful Break Up Spells?

Your casting spell location should be calm and quiet, with no distractions such as your phone ringing or someone talking to you. It's similar to a meditative state in which you must concentrate and commit.

The most important aspect of all is your dedication to the practice. You cannot begin casting a breakup spell unless you are in tune with your intention and truly feel what you want coming from within. One of the most common reasons why a spell fails to work and manifest is a lack of a clear intention. What causes this to happen? Because we are too angry, confused, or "all over the place," especially when we have a broken heart. Clearing your mind and knowing what you truly want is required to allow the energy to flow and your break up spell to be successful.

Once you've decided on your intention and your mind is fully committed to your practice and ready to cast the spell, you only need a candle, a piece of paper, a pen, and an item that reminds you of the person you want to separate from. Of course, these are just starting points; there are many different spells with many different ingredients that you can try, and don't forget that magick has nuances that you can explore to find your own!

Let's get into the specifics (advanced reading)

Passionate love can be disrupted by rituals that produce a type of cooling that produces the stars such as Saturn when they appear.

Break up spells that work immediately are usually performed on Saturdays, whereas some Solomonic Magic spells of kabbalistic origin are performed on Fridays – in both cases during the waning moon. This has an astrological explanation.

Initially, Voodoo Rites practitioners ignored the lunar phase and day (Monday, Tuesday, etc.), but with the advent of astrological knowledge, they stopped ignoring it.

Solomonic Magic in Practice: Four Rulers

 

In fact, not only the day and moon phase, but also the magic hour, is taken into account in Magic Solomonic and, more broadly, in kabbalistic magic.

A day of the moon phase is taken into account in Voodoo, and at most, it indicates the time (morning afternoon, after sunset, or midnight)

As the growing light propitiates and vitalizes what must begin, the light at the apex that at the meridian favors the full development of what is already in place, the waning light favors departures and separations in the evening after sunset, and at night all the evil rites depicting darkness.

Only in a few cases are Voodoo and derivatives used at night for positive rituals and because the night causes the Soul to be more receptive, and thus more influential.

As a result, the waning Moon has such an impact that it aids in the separation of two people and distances, and it is the phrase used for the rites of separation breaking marriages and engagements.

Let's take a closer look at the various types of rituals and other distinctions.

Separation rituals are fundamental of two types: those linked to the primary forces of nature, which are the forces that create instincts in nature, such as the Quimbanda, a branch of Macumba in which the Exus are invoked as Pompagira.

Quimbanda: The Cult of the Red and Black Flame explains that these exus are linked to the primary terrestrial forces, as well as the Voodoo (voudon) that is linked to the Loas, with the exception that some are similar to the Exu of the Quimbanda but with different names, and others are the souls of the dead.

This ritual is very powerful because it is linked to the strong evil Egregores and can cause some disharmony even in strong unions linked by Love, but to the latter, they can only cause some disharmony, whereas to passionate loves the real breaks occur.

Egregores: The Occult Entities That Watch Over Human Destiny is a fascinating book that explains everything.

How to Chant a Break Up Spell?

The spell brings the caster and the recipient into close proximity, and the latter is "subjected" to the spell's charm. It can be directed at a person, an object, a deity or spirit, a natural phenomenon, or an abstract concept.

Did you know that a spell in ancient times meant to sing a song? Music poetry is the ultimate expression of the power of words. Consider how listening to a musician can enchant an audience. This is the spell's power: it can capture the target object and change its behavior.

What distinguishes a chant from the common discourse?

The spells are written according to ancient rules and are often understandable or have an effect even if the person does not understand the language in which the poem is written. When we pronounce them translated, we also think of all the formulas that are invalid.

We must follow the same rules when writing spells and sacred poems as we do when writing poetry, music, drawing, and magic. For example, because numbers, sounds, and words are all related, we must follow the metric and everything else according to the magical rules. I won't dwell on this disagreement because it's difficult to express, and we should use it as a springboard to discuss other topics.

A spell is formed when a text and a piece of music are structured in this manner. Under magical correspondences, this spell no longer operates solely through the intellectual sense and audible sound, but rather through the law of sympathy. Consider a spell to be a tuning fork that, with its music, sets the strings of an instrument in motion on the same tone without touching it, thus tuning it.

Similarly, objects, stars, spirits, and nature "understand" singing and the magic formula on a spiritual level.

Remember that music and words are imbued with both the magician's energy and the Spirit of the World (universal energy). All of this is enhanced by the powers of faith, dedication, and consecration.

If the word is the manifestation of thought, then thought is a word spoken in one's head. The power of words contributes to the spread of ideas by providing auxiliary energy. In the case of spoken language, these auxiliary energies are the sound, the breath, and the air through which it travels (altering its energy).

Furthermore, the word can be written. In this case, we are bringing thought and its energy into the physical world and binding that energy into a tangible object (paper, wood, computer, etc.).

Another evocative aspect of the written word is that it can be read and understood at a later time, regenerating the sound and the original idea in a reverse process. Objects, or material things, are words – thus sounds and thoughts.

When analyzing the words around you: those spoken, sung, written, and thought, as well as those in the form of images, objects, and actions. You will most likely notice that they express ideas and energies that are not spiritual, but rather vulgar, futile, negative, and bad. You'll notice that these are the energies that change in your life and within you.

Because we all seek peace and harmony, each of us has the task of disciplining the mind, of organizing positive thoughts, words, and energies.

 

A break up spell chant is the most powerful and simple way to bring a wish, a feeling, or a thought to life.

There are many different spells and magically formulas to sing and chant out loud during a spell casting, but I believe you should use them as a starting point to create your own formula. Why? Because that is the most effective way for the energy to connect with you and your wishes while spreading your vibes and magic throughout the universe. Furthermore, it would imply that you are truly open to making things happen because you are giving yourself to it, your essence, and your intuition are at work.

Totems and Sigils For a Spell to Break Up a Couple

Totems and sigils for break up spells can be fantastic tools for accomplishing this. These are items that communicate to the universe, to magic, and to the flowing magical energy what you truly desire, while also acting as an attractor, a magnet to that vision you have and want to shape, create, and manifest.

When selecting a Totem, it is necessary to investigate our affinities with animals, their earthly and spiritual qualities, and their presence in the environment in which we live.

When first coming into contact with a Totem, it is best to do so in a sacred space, at least until we gain enough confidence and learn to know it. We come into contact with its energies, which we combine with our own.

Working with totems is not difficult, but you must learn to meditate and practice everything on a daily basis. Spend time with your astral animal, getting to know it and bonding with it. Try to learn everything there is to know about him/her and tell him/her everything so that you can learn to understand yourself thoroughly and without secrets.

To some, the astral power of Totems is comparable to that of Artificial Elementals, which are composed of thought-forms or created by our energy.

I don't use sigils for breakup spells because I focus all of my energy and intentions on the situations and the others. I frequently find that sigils are an excellent tool for self-protection and self-work, whereas totems, crystals, and tarot are more my style. However, as you know, a spell should be personal and customized based on your persona and your feelings about it.

How to Make a Voodoo Doll for Break Up Spells?

Some breakup rituals necessitate the use of a voodoo doll, so let's learn how to make one.

Voodoo dolls are frequently associated with negativity, but this is not always the case. We can use them not only for evil spells, but also for good. While some dolls designed to promote positive energy are not dangerous, others are, so it is critical that you follow the rituals with caution.

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Here's how to make a powerful voodoo doll.

 

Making a voodoo doll for these spells is not difficult; all it takes is a little patience and an open mind. Because it is a voodoo item linked to that magick tradition, you should exercise extreme caution when casting voodoo break-up spells, especially if you are a beginner, as it is a powerful and complex practice.

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1. Collect Materials
You don’t actually need a lot of different materials to create a doll, however, each material has its own energies and connections. The same goes for the colors of these materials.
Most used materials are paper, twigs, clay, cloth, and corn husks. Sometimes you’ll also need something to stuff your doll with.

 

2. Connect Your Doll With a Person
Each voodoo doll will have its own specific connection with one particular person that you’ll choose. The craft of a doll is massively reliant upon the transfer of energy – so if you want to make it work, it must have some kind of a connection with that person.

 

3. Build a Skeleton of Your Doll
The skeleton is a very important part of a doll. Below you’ll find 7 spells and 2 of these spells require a voodoo doll in order to take effect. So each spell has its own rules for a voodoo doll – how it should look like. We’ll mostly need white and black clothing, and simple materials like cotton, paper, and cloth.

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4. Decorating Your Doll
This part isn’t as important as much as the previous part. You need to form the head, feet, and arms – that’s essential. Other parts such as eyes and hair aren’t important that much.
Some say that the more your doll looks like a person you are creating it for, the better your ritual will work. This is somewhat true, but in our case, it’s more important that you’re focused more on a ritual alone than on the decoration.

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5. Prepare it for a Ritual
First, you need to name it. As you can imagine, a name should be the same as the reals person’s name. Giving it a name means that you’ll baptize it. If you have a burning incense near you, you can also purify it.

To carry out the baptism ceremony you will need to dunk your doll underwater while saying the following, as found in Aleister Crowley’s book Ritual VIII:

“I baptize you (name of the person in question) in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. In life, you are now that who I wish you to be. All that is done to you will happen to (name of the person in question) in the world as I command it. I now control the desires, dreams, and ultimate fate of (name of the person in question). Their life belongs to me. May (name of the person in question) see no pleasure or profit from their life or endeavors unless I deem it so.”

At this point, you and your doll are ready. We can proceed to break up spells.

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 Powerful Break Up Spells That Work Immediately

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1. Strong Black Magic Break Up Spell

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One of the most powerful rituals for separating two souls is this breakup spell. You will be able to work on separating the couple you want to see break up thanks to the energy of black magic.

Even though it is simple to cast and requires only a few basic ingredients, the black magic break up spell is an advanced spell.

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Remember that when it comes to black magic, your intention is everything. Concentrate on that and visualize what you want to achieve while casting the spell!

 

Difficulty: Advanced

Effectiveness: 4/5

 

Ingredients:

• A piece of paper

• Black ink

• A black candle

• Something to carve the candle

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Ritual:

1. Meditate for a few minutes to clear your mind and relax.

2. Lightly and slowly, carve the black candle from the top down with these words: “Nunc Distant in Nomine Malo”.

3. Light the black candle.

4. Write the names of the two people you want to separate with the black ink on a piece of paper.

5. Take a piece of paper, point it towards the sky and say: “In Nomine Luciferi Ego Conteram Et Dividat Cor Tuum. Spirituum Inferi Intends Orazio Mea. Spirituum Inferi Intends Orazio Mea. Spirituum Inferni Intends Orazio Mea. Nemamen! “

6. Tear off a piece of paper in two parts.

7. Burn one of the two pieces with the candle flame and say: “On Oruko O Yo Korira!”

8. Burn the second piece with the candle flame and recite this formula again: “On Oruko O Yo Korira!”

9. Let the candle be consumed and bury the residues.

 

Tips

: be careful while chanting to spell everything in the right way. Go as slow as you can and truly focus on each word you chant.

 

2. Mexican Break Up Spell With Lemon and Salt

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This breakup spell is centuries old and has its roots in Mexican folk magic, which has long been used it. It can be used interchangeably by men and women. Simply pay attention to the various steps. The magical properties of lemon and salt are what make it work, as lemon and salt have the ability to embitter and destroy the relationship.

 

Difficulty: Beginner-Friendly

Effectiveness: 3/5

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Ingredients:

• A lemon

• Two strips of white paper with the names of people written with a pencil

• Salt.

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Ritual:

1. Cut the lemon into a cross, then insert the names into it, and a pinch of salt onto lemons. Then recite a specific sentence:
   Just as salt is falling apart, love (or the friendship of) (his first name ) and (then her name) break down.

2. At this point leave the lemon in a hidden place for a week and then throw it away preferably in running water. (The best option would be to put it in a river as it’s the best natural form of running water. If there isn’t a river nearby your casting place use your sink and tap water to wash it away and then throw it into a trash bag. Otherwise, you can get rid of these ingredients by burying them in a place you won’t come back to.)

3. The salt is used to tighten up relationships between people. Lemon will help to remove the sweetness of the relationship and make it diminish over time.

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Keep in mind that this ritual doesn’t work between people of the same sex.

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3. 7 Day Voodoo Break Up Spell

 

This 7-day voodoo break up spell is extremely complex and should only be attempted by experienced witches.

The selection of ingredients, as well as the fact that you will cast the spell on a daily basis for at least 7 days and up to 9 days for faster results, make this spell very complex but very effective.

It is critical that you commit to the practice and that, once you have decided to try this break up spell, you repeat it every day with the same intention and concentration. If you miss a day or two, you must recast everything from the beginning.

 

Difficulty: Expert Witch

 

Effectiveness: 5/5

Moon: it isn’t necessary to follow days and moon, but we need to consider that this is a ritual with a negative purpose, so I recommend

casting this on Tuesday or Friday (the waning moon).

 

Time: start at 21.30 or 22.00

The ritual is repeated for 7 days or 9 days.

 

Ingredients:

• A black candle

• Pictures of people that you want to break up

• Pen or black marker and one red

• A piece of paper

• A glass jar with the aluminum cap or a bottle (I don’t recommend the last one as it is difficult to fill)

• Rusty Nails 9 (rust is very important for the ruin of a relationship)

• Pins 9 (nails and pins symbolize pain and wounds in the report)

• Black pepper

• Red pepper in grains (if you cannot find red pepper in grains you can substitute this with 2 chili peppers)

• Chili pepper

• Black mustard seeds (to create problems) – (if you cannot find black mustard seeds you can use some rocks)

• Vinegar (to sour the union)

• While you can also add lemon juice or sour milk

• Black dog and black cat hair, (this is important and you need only a few. It’s necessary to trigger the fight between a couple)

• Glass chips to cut and hurt the relationship

This is the base, but if you wanted to strengthen this ritual further and succeed, find and use these things:

• Asephodelia (to make ill, evil, invocations)

• Graveyard (used against enemies)

• Cendrine herb (for separations, discords, and conflicts between people.)

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Ritual:

Light the black candle, engrave the names (name and surname) of the people you want to separate (you can use a toothpick) and between the two names engrave the word “divorce” or “separation.”

Grease the candle with break up or other command oils.If you don’t have them you can also:

Grease the candle with chili oil, Tabasco, and cover it with red pepper, mustard seeds, or chili. Grease from the center towards the two ends.

Your candle is ready, so light it with a match.

Writing behind the photos:

– With a red pen if you want the person to remain next to you
– With a black pen if you want to remove it

On each photo write their name and surname and on another piece of paper write down the command:
“Person X must leave a person Y” – must be written in black color.

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When you finish, put a piece of paper (written in black) between the two photos (which you shouldn’t look at) and then put everything in the jar or a bottle. You can also add other witnesses inside and cover them with vinegar.

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Close it tightly and start shaking the jar violently. Get angry if necessary and proceed with your command with anger and decision. As you do this, visualize this couple fighting fiercely.

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Turn off the candle with your fingers. You can shake a jar whenever you need it and when you don’t, close it in a plastic bag (to suffocate the relationship) and place it behind the toilet.

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Shake the jar at least two times a day.

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When ritual ends, this jar must be buried in a graveyard. You can bury that jar during the day, to thank the spirits that will act for you.

If you don’t have vinegar and those pet hairs choose another spell as those are the main ingredients to make this particular spell work.

 

4. Manipulative Dark Break Up Spell

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This dark spell still requires dog or cat hair, but it's a little easier to cast than the previous 7-day spell. This is an excellent spell for manipulating people and causing love to fade between the couple you wish to separate.

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While casting this spell, keep your intention in mind and visualize these people parting ways. It is critical that you cleanse the tools and the energy of the casting location, so burn incense and soak your witchy tools in saltwater to prepare them for this spell.

Why? Because you require the entire energy within and around you to be ready and set to turn and shift the energy in order to manipulate the designed couple.

 

Difficulty: Expert Witch

Effectiveness: 5/5

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Ingredients:

• Cauldron and ladle (if you don’t have a cauldron and a ladle you can use a small pan)

• Items belonging to the people you want to separate or a piece of paper with their names

• Cat hair (preferably black)

• Dog hair (preferably black)

• Oil

• Vinegar

• Water

• Nettles (optional)

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Ritual:

1. At this point, we’ll choose to act on the night of a Tuesday or Saturday which occurs in the period between the full moon and the new moon (waning moon phase).

2. Once all the necessary material has been placed, it’ll be purified with a salt bath, and the room in which the ceremony will be officially fired will be abundantly incensed.

3. Then the potion is prepared by introducing the ingredients into the cauldron, avoiding for its intention:

4. Pouring water reiterate how water and fire are contrary and how one perishes in the presence of the other.

5. Insert the hair of the cat and dog expressing that the two are opposed as a cat and dog, always in disagreement and dislike.

6. Pour in oil and express that oil and water do not mix, so it is not possible for the two of them to find a point of union, of love and harmony.

7. Insert the vinegar and mention that the vinegar corrodes.

8. Insert the nettles saying that as the plant burns they will not have peace until your will is fulfilled.

9. At this point, let the potion reach the boil, and in the meantime visualize your goal or relax with the certainty of success. When you feel that the target is reached, turn off the flame. Then incense the room again.

10. The filter must be bottled and poured near the places frequented by the victims. If it is not possible, pour it in two different places declaring the separation between the parts.

Once again, this is a very manipulative ritual, and it must be carried out with the appropriate precaution.

 

5. Easy Chanting Spell to Separate Two Lovers

This is an old-fashioned chanting spell that you can easily perform without any prior experience or special ingredients.

Still, your dedication to this type of spell is critical, and you must truly believe in what you are doing and saying in order for it to work. If you're a new witch, this is a great place to start casting spells to break up a couple and learn more about your witchy craft.

 

Difficulty: Beginner-Friendly

Effectiveness: 3/5

 

Ingredients:

• A pencil

• 1 black candle

• 1 sheet of paper and a pen

• Matches

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Ritual:

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  1. On a waning moon night, take the black candle and light it with matches.

  2. Write the name, surname, and date of birth of the people you want to break up drawing a circle that contains all this on the sheet of paper.

  3. Light up the black candle and place it above the paper. Start with dropping wax from the upper part of the circle that contains the names, until you cover the whole circle and its contents. While you are doing this, you have to imagine these two people leaving, discussing, and dividing. Try to concentrate all the energy possible.

1. After you have finished covering the whole circle, blow on the candle to extinguish it and say the following words:

2. “So I transferred my will,
   My spell has been heard.
   So I want it, so be it!”

3. Set the sheet of paper on fire, and leave the ashes in the air.

4. Light the candle again and let it burn until it’s gone.

 

6. Voodoo Dolls Break Up Spell with Vinegar

 

Difficulty: Advanced

Effectiveness: 4/5

Ingredients:

• Fabric (one black piece and one white piece)

• An empty bowl

• Vinegar

• Salt in grains

• Pepper powder

• Pure alcohol

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• Ritual:

  1. During a waning moon evening, take two pieces of fabric and sew two dolls to symbolize the people.

  2. Use a black cloth for the doll that will embody a person that needs to be removed and a white cloth for a person who wants to separate your loved one from your foe.

  3. Take the bowl and mix vinegar, salt, and pepper add pure alcohol, and apply it to a white doll.

  4. Sprinkle the other doll with pure alcohol.

  5. Wrap these two dolls with a black cloth and then bury them in the ground, possibly under a thorny plant waiting for the ritual to take effect.

 

7. Onion Break Up Spell

Difficulty: Beginner-Friendly

Effectiveness: 3/5

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This is a spell of estrangement, and it serves to ward off your love from your rival (which can be a wife, a partner, a partner, a friend too close …). Basically, this is the perfect spell to let your loved rival disappear from the picture so you can have the person you want all for yourself.

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Let me explain myself better; here we have an onion, cut and stitched with toothpicks. So more an onion rots with the names of people involved, the more will their relationship rot, to the point of being completely consumed.

This is very easy to cast but still, you need to give it the time to rot and you don’t need to rush things. Wait for it to naturally happen to let your vision manifest and finally see this couple separate ways.

 

Day: Tuesday

Moon: falling moon

Day: possibly of Mars (Tuesday)

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Ingredients:

• 1 black pen

• 1 white paper

• 1 red onion (you can use white onion as well if you cannot find a red one)

• 7 toothpicks

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• Ritual:

  1. First, we cut the onion into two equal parts (that is, just break it in the middle.)

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  3. After that, we need to cut 2 strips of paper

  4. On the first piece of paper, you need to write down the name of your loved one, and on the second you need to write down the name of your rival – use a black pen for that.

  5. Place each strip on one half of the onion, and then put the two halves together.

  6. You’ll have these 2 pieces of paper in the middle of our onion, and it’s essential that these names aren’t positioned to “look at each other” so be careful when closing the whole thing. See the pic to know how to place the piece of paper! One must be carefully put on the back of the other. Make the onion adhere with the help of 7 toothpicks (check the pic below to see how to properly use the toothpicks)

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  8. Chant out loud: “let them separate, let them fight, etc.”

  9. Bury this onion somewhere far from home and forget it.

 

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Final Thoughts

 

Separating two people using semi-benign methods (they are never completely benign) is much more difficult, necessitating multiple sessions and constant monitoring of how the situation evolves.

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In this case, the only thing you can do is "instill" or increase the person's interest in you. Everything else will have to wait and be patient.

You could always have an “extramarital” relationship if this manifestation is a positive event for both you and him/her (for example, a “life lesson”).

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Except for once, I have successfully performed these rituals several times; the latter was not a sentimental situation: I obtained a 'postponement' of date (the event occurred with a significant delay), but not the elimination of the event itself, which, over time, proved not only inevitable but also necessary to improve the lives of those involved.

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This type of ritualistic has proven to be extremely effective in removing people who flirt with or try to seduce their loved ones.

If they are only distractions, they always leave and never return. However, if one of them was the loved one's soul mate, the ritual would obviously be ineffective.

It's only a representation. I simply imagine that the "competition" (one or more) that is surrounding your loved one suddenly stops and begins to flow away from your loved one. The gap between the loved one and the 'competition' grows until they are far apart, and then they vanish on the horizon.